I'm certain my head will explode at any minute!

We had a good Christmas despite not having much money to spend. Ok...we had NO money to spend. But I did spend some anyway because kids don't understand that. Jason and I got a few nice things too, including an awesome quesadilla maker that is the best thing ever! I tried it out last night and fell in love. It was like at first sight but love at first bite. It makes some darn good quesadillas. I can put just about whatever I want in it as long as I put it in a 10 inch tortilla. That was MY favorite Christmas present!
We also got some grocery gift cards which really helped out on my last shopping trip. I haven't been to the store in a couple of weeks so I really filled my cart. This was the first time in months that Jason kept the baby (Jo is really sick so I insisted he had to stay home). I just had to take one of the others so I took my daughter and dropped her off at the grocery store's tree house (best idea ever). I got to the register and my bill totalled $310 before my card savings. After card savings, the bill totalled $199. Over $100 in savings isn't bad. I had 3 or 4 coupons too which helped make it that low. I used our two $20 gift cards so I only had to pay $159. Cart overflowing, I made it home and crashed on the couch, announcing loudly that I was NOT bringing anything in. I am really sick too. Jason got the hint and brought everything in and even put it away. I helped a little with that. Then I am hungry so I go and raid our newly stocked kitchen only to find that there is NOTHING. Yeah, there is plenty but I didn't get anything I could just grab and eat. Too bad sandwiches don't make themselves. I am not feeling well enough to cook AND eat. Just eat.

I browsed the bills and this is where the exploding head comes in. Car and house payments are due right now: $1000. Gas bill is almost $800. Electric is almost $400. They are both due immediately. Plus the water bill, phone bill, sewer/trash bill and a few others I know my head is avoiding. I practically peed my pants reading our latest gas bill because I know we couldn't have possibly used as much as they are saying we are. Our gas dryer is broken and we don't overuse our heat. Yet the bill shows that we used TWICE as much gas as we did last December. Last December we had a freakin gas dryer. This December we don't, and nothing else has changed. So how on Earth has it doubled? We do qualify for LIHEAP which helps with your gas or electric bill over the winter months if you can't afford it. Unfortunately unemployment still doesn't send paystubs and Jason STILL hasn't called them (he tried one day for 15 minutes but gave up after the busy signal started to drive him nuts) to get a copy of what he is being paid. Every time you try to call unemployment the line is BUSY. Always busy. My mom was trying to get her paystubs from them and spent 5 hours calling them nonstop. FIVE HOURS! She said she just kept hitting re-dial over and over again. And they don't let you request or access info like that online. They should, considering you can't call them. I just want to cry. Can't get the LIHEAP without proof of income but can't get proof of income because the unemployment office is too busy. I wonder if I can tell them that and just send them a copy of our initial statement of what he will make...? Probably not. It's what he makes every week but that would just be too easy for everyone.

I am absolutely not making enough cash online to pay all these outstanding bills.

Make money at Wellness 360

You won't get rich but you will make a few bucks a money just by keeping track of what you eat, watching exercise videos, reading health articles and other easy things. You can sign up for free here: Wellness 360


My favorite way to rack up points is with the food intake tool. You simply enter what you have eaten for the day (or days if you miss a few). If others have entered the same food before then you will be able to make a selection from the list and it will save you the time of entering calories and nutritional info.

Keeping track of your earnings is very simple. You receive points for participating on the site but you can also see how much money you are making when you view your report. I have consistently made about $3 a month but I do not visit the site daily. If you visited every day and utilized all of the tools and articles available you would probably make about $10 a month. When you refer friends you can make even more. They pay quarterly, when you have made $25 or more.



Just as cool as making money, they keep track of your caloric intake so that you can monitor your eating habits. Very helpful if you are on a diet or trying to get/stay healthy. By keeping track I know that I have lost 5 pounds since joining the site and it helps me want to keep working on it!

Bit the Bzz bullet and got the Game Wave system

I am a Bzz Agent and recently was offered a campaign called the Zapit Game Wave Game System. The catch- this one I would have to pay for. $50. I love games so the siren song was powerful.
I bought it! It is my Christmas AND birthday present. I wasn't going to get myself anything and normally I wouldn't spend money on a Bzz campaign but Jason (boyfriend) spent $40 on an Everquest 2 expansion pack without discussing it with anyone first (he said there was no discussion- he was going to buy it no matter what). So I decided that I would try out the Game Wave, a DVD game console by ZAPiT Games. Plus it could be a present for the entire family if everyone ends up liking the games that came with my order.
I signed up for the campaign kind of late (the very beginning of December) so I figured that it would come either right before Christmas or possibly even after. But to my surprise it came super fast. It arrived less than 2 weeks after I placed my $50 order. In addition to the system (which has a suggested retail price of $99, comes with 4 remotes...and includes batteries, matching remote dock, all cables that you will need and one trivia game) I got 2 additional remotes and 4 additional games. The extra games are Rewind- a trivia game, Letter Zap!- a word game that can be played two different ways, Gemz- a color/shape matching game and Click!- a game that is a race to solve a mystery puzzle. The 4 extra games come in dvd sleeves instead of cases. Bad when you have young kids but good if you take it with you a lot.
The system is meant to be a multi-player game. Up to 6 people can play at once. It is a family game system so even kids can play. Right now there are 13 games offered and it says they are all are violence-free. It also doubles as a DVD player. Very cool!
I checked out the website to learn some more info:
http://playgamewave.com/index.cfm
It goes into detail about the games that are available (I hope I can buy Veggie Tales in the future!) and where you can find one in a physical store (looks like it is available a mostly religious stores but there is a map to show exact locations). You can also purchase everything online. You can even try out one of the games on the site. Reviews and other information also available.
Stay tuned to read about my experiences with the Game Wave...!

Sold! Getting rid of stuff to make way for more stuff

My house is lik a giant ball of clutter. You can barely walk anywhere without running into or tripping over something. So in an effort to do good to the house and to get back some money to buy clothes (and other needed items) for the family I am trying to sell some of our old stuff. I started with baby stuff since I don't expect to have anymore. We have lot of old baby clothes and some other things. First thing I listed for sale was on my local Yahoo sales group and also on my local Craigslist. I uploaded my pictures on Share a Pic which pays $.22 per 1000 views (remember, I do almost nothing for free! Though I won't lie, the site is almost more trouble than it is worth). I posted a doorway infant jumper for $5. Sold in a day. Almost made enough to pay for the pink sparkly ballet shoes and pair of jeans that I picked up from someone else on Craigslist. Those together cost $7. So now I am behind $2.

I also have some stuff on consignment in one store. Most of my funds there I have already spent on some new pants for my daughter since she is growing out of all of her 3t clothing and we have almost nothing that is 4t (anyone have anything to donate?) But when I go pick up the leftovers in the beginning of December I might have some more money there. I will most likely just use store credit and get new clothes for everyone- we all need them. I wish that was just me being a clothing whore but unfortunately it isn't. I have 8 or 9 pairs of pants but only 2 or 3 pairs actually fit me. I have NO long sleeved shirts that fit and WINTER is coming fast in PA. My oldest son has plently of pants but he is growing out of all of his shirts. My daughter, as I mentioned before has almost nothing in 4s but that is what she needs. My baby boy needs everything. We don't do shoes so I won't even bother looking for those and I just bought him some socks. But he has so few clothes that I am doing laundry 3 times a week just for him.
And did I mention that our DRYER broke, we have VERY LIMITED space to line and hang dry...AND it's cold out a lot now. But line drying has advantages like stiff jeans that make us itchy. Oh yeah, it also saves us some money!

Anyhow, I also listed some baby boy 0-3 month clothing. All of it is in pretty good condition- it was brought to my attention that there are a few stains on some of the stuff but I had trouble seeing them and there is some wear on a few things but no holes or rips- if it were me buying and I checked it all out I would totally buy it, especially at less than $1 per item! I have 19 things- all winter stuff like pants and long-sleeves and a jacket. I have that listed for $15. Is that too much? Because I have no buyers.

That is all I have so far. I have gotten together approximately 50 items to bring to the consignment shop though I don't like making the 25 minute trip so I try to find other reasons I could go out there. It is close to the only local Home Depot and I have a $25 gift card to use there courtesy of Gather. I could buy a new door handle for our backdoor since we don't currently have one. They only take 50 items per visit. I was thinking of trying some other consignment shops too. Most of them have terms I do not like. One place makes you pull your own items at the end of the consignment period. Ha! Like I could do that with 2-3 kids in tow. So that one is totally out. Some want everything on hangars and some require that anything unsold goes straight to charity. Sorry, but I am practically a charity case myself. But I need to start calling other places to see where I can take my stuff. That will get rid of it much faster. Some of them might even take household items, which I have too much of. People give me stuff assuming I want it and I DON'T...but I don't have the heart to reject things.

I think I will stick to baby items, clothing and household goods that are just sitting out. Then I will move on to more. Start small...start small. I have to keep repeating this!


Sell anything online for FREE

Unemployment- at least we have something, but I want more

Jason lost his job on October 13, 2008. Forget plans to have a vasectomy- that costs about as much money as we will be making a month or maybe more. Shoot, we might as well forget Christmas. Anyway, he got approved for unemployment so while he is off and looking for non-existant jobs he is also SUPPOSED to be going back to school. I already got all excited over that but I forgot who I was focusing on and realized this weekend that I should NEVER EVER look forward to something when it comes to him. He does what he wants, when he wants and it doesn't matter that he has 3 kids and a girlfriend that have to work around HIS schedule. I'm starting to think that Everquest will forever be more important than anything else and that he will not be going back to school (more about that Everquest crap later).

Before he lost his job we had about $3,000 in the bank from tax returns. Now that we will be getting way less than $400 (closer to $300) a week, we are quickly losing that saved money and we will start having serious money troubles soon. We just got a van back in June which costs $400 a month. Our mortgage is around $600 a month. That plus insurance is what we will be making a month with his new paycheck.
So the same day he got fired I took on a job babysitting full time. But I only getting $50 a week from that. But $200 extra a month is something. That will pay the electric bill and the house phone.
Preschool I paid in full at the beginning of the year so that is something I won't have to worry about anymore.

I do some things online to make money but none of them make me enough. I am not one of those people that rocks at getting referrals and it seems with so many places that if you want to make money you need other people helping out. I have a lot of referrals on one of my sites and there I earn about $5 a month doing nothing. Though it would be pretty awesome if every site I was a member of was earning me $5 a month. I might be making a good bit of money then! I suck at writing, otherwise I would go for places like Associated Content to make a few bucks a week.

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Trying to "go green" but it's more like going broke

For quite some time I have been interested in the green movement. Everytime I learn about something new I try to do some research, mainly looking at cost. I get to a site and the first thing I note is their mention of how "it will save you in the long run". As I read that statement my hope abandons me. That says to me: "it's gonna cost you a fortune!" And of course I am always right. I know how they can justify it- you are doing so much for the future and the earth. But how am I supposed to pull hundreds or thousands of dollars out of an empty bank account? Especially when I need to feed my family NOW- not in five years.
But I do do what I can. I buy those cool light bulbs. They don't last as long as they promise but they do last much longer. Savings on my electric bill? No clue. A plus: you don't need to constantly change your light bulbs! Good for us since our "ladder" is usually a wobbly chair. Who needs a stinkin' ladder?
I turn off lights when I am not using a room. Unfortunately everyone else in the house compensates for my savings by making sure you can see our house from space no matter what time it is.

Green gifts:

Free stuff for watching commercials? Sign me up!

If you have some spare time, this site is pretty neat. At Spotwinner you earn points, or "SpotCash", for watching television commercials and rating them. You also earn entries into contests that are held on a regular basis. Entries for the contests can also be earned by playing games and more. And people actually win! I have a few connections on a social site that have won some great prizes like cash, PSPs, picture frames and more.
I didn't really want to sign up at first but I got SO jealous seeing how often they were winning things so I finally signed up and I am glad I did! I have only been on the site for about 2 weeks and don't sign on daily. But I still won 100 SpotCash. You can use these points for a variety of gift cards. Free gift cards- can't beat it! Plus the chance to win great prizes! With Christmas coming up I don't want to miss the chance to win something that I could give as a gift- just another way to save money :) Definately a site worth checking out.

I Don't Search for Free.

And neither should you!

Why would you search for free when you could win prizes or earn money to search the internet. I belong to a handful of "paid to search" sites. Some of them randomly give out points (or their currency of money) when you search, some pay per search. Most of them give you entries into contests for every search you perform.

My favorite is Swagbucks. At Swagbucks you search and they randomly give out "swagbucks" that vary from 1-5. It might go higher than 5 but that is the highest amount I have ever won. Every buck you win can be redeemed for prizes. If you search daily you will likely win 30 or more swagbucks every month. Prizes can be redeemed starting at 6 Swagbucks, though the amount changes with promotions. Right now they have a bunch of baseball cards that are mostly 10 swagbucks. 6 Swagbucks will get you a $5 e-certificate to a site called Overdrive Electronics. A $5 Amazon.com gift card is 45 Swagbucks and a $5 Starbucks giftcard is 50 Swagbucks. These amounts can change from time to time. They have tons of prizes under 100 Swagbucks and more are added all of the time. If you are not impatient, like I am, you can save for a really big prize like the WII Fit for 1200 SBs, the PSP for 1600 SBs and much more. I use Swagbucks for my homepage so that I can search everytime I get on the computer! I have redeemed 253 Swagbucks to date and currently have almost 40 SBs ready to cash in. I have primarily choosen Starbucks gift cards but have also picked out one Amazon.com gift card. I think this time I will try to save a little longer, especially since I now trust this site to pay!

Next is My Search Funds. MSF pays money for every search. They pay in pounds instead of dollars. There are two ways to use MSF to earn money. You can set your search box to be MSF. That is what I have done. Once I have won my Swagbucks for the day I move over to MSF to make some money. You can also make it your home page. Since I already have my homepage I don't use this option. The most I have made in one day at this site is .44 pounds. (sorry, I don't know how to get the symbol). Mostly I only do a search or two a day. So my earnings there are pretty slow. This site also has some fun gadgets, especially if you want to make it your home page. You can customize it to show a variety of things like news, currency converter, blogs, games and more. I have set mine up but it would be more worth it if it was my home page.

Stay tuned for more of my favorite search sites!

Always remember that you must follow the terms of every site so that you do not violate them and lose everything!

Move Over Fantasy Football!

I never understood fantasy football. Betting on something that doesn't exist never made sense. Now I sort of get it because I have found Fantasy Stock Trading!
There is a site called Wall Street Survivor where you get $100,000 (pretend of course) to use "buying, selling and trading" stock. Everything on the site is in real time (with a delay unless you upgrade). So you can see what would really happen if you invested. A good way to get practice if you are thinking about buying stocks in the future. And fun if you will never have the money to do it for real! I just signed up a few days ago and "bought" a few stocks. I also "sold" one that was doing terrible. I am very impulsive! Probably not a good idea in real life because I lost a few hundred dollars from it. It is really cool to see updates every 15 minutes.
And the best part about the site...the REAL money you can win with contests. AND the loyalty points you can earn for doing stuff on the site like making trades and logging in. Loyalty points are redeemed for Amazon.com gift cards.
Fun and money?! Can't beat that!!

Sign up to play:

Joffrey's Part Deux

Well, those fabulous people at Joffrey's had us take a survey a bit ago. They were trying to get some ideas for a new flavor. Of course I had terrible ideas along the lines of mint or mint chocolate. But after gathering all of their information they came up with a new blend that they decided to call Coffee 2.0!
The description is kind of odd and would turn me off if I were reading it at the store. The layout is really cool and takes after its' name.

From the bag:
Joffrey's Coffee 2.0, the specially engineered, highly optimized flavorful coffee developed for hard working techies and social media lovers.
Made from 100% Arabica Beans, Coffee 2.0 is hand-roasted to perfection. This brew is fueled with flavor and eye-popping energy to help you get your work done throughout the day and into the wee hours of the morning.

It follows with Tags (too cute) and categories to describe the coffee.

So I tried the coffee the morning after receiving the sample in the mail (it came really fast!). It has a really strong smell that I wasn't too fond of. I perfer mellow scents and this isn't one. I brewed it and flavored it with my coffeemate creamer. YUMMMM! I can't really explain the flavor but it is definately STILL way better than Folger's or Maxwell House coffee. Those regular coffees now taste more like old cigarettes than ever. They just aren't good anymore. Never before have I been able to justify spending more on coffee because nothing ever tasted much better than the cheap stuff. Now I am going to have to try to save some money every so often to grab a bag of Joffrey's. Darn them!

My 7 Year Old Son's Surgery...EEEEK!

My 7 year old son has a mild form of Sleep Apnea which was inherited from his dad. You can learn about Apnea here: http://www.sleepapnea.org/info/index.html

His tonsils were HUGE. He snored at night and sometimes stopped breathing for a few seconds. It isn't nearly as bad as what his dad has but I wanted to take care of this asap. He has trouble getting a good night sleep and that shows at school. Two years ago I had a consultation with an ENT doctor (Ear Nose and Throat). After learning about it I freaked out and didn't go through with it. I decided the end of last school year that it needed to be done so I made another appointment. The more I learned about getting tonsils and adenoids taken out, the more freaked out I got. The doctor looked at everything and said it would be best if he had both done at once.

Finally we scheduled a surgery date: September 23, 2008. I really wanted to have it done over the summer so he wouldn't miss any school but they seem to be overwhelmingly busy during the summer months. So I agreed to this date with the knowledge that he would probably be out of school for about 2 weeks. That day came fast. The closer it got, the more frightened I became that I might only be a mommy to 2 kids when it was over. Being put to sleep scares me SO bad. The idea of someone never waking up again. Add the risks of surgery and I was terrified!

Tuesday, 9/23 we had to be at the hospital at 6:15am. That time doesn't exist to my kids or myself. This wouldn't be a big deal for some...but MY kids don't accept that as being morning, especially when the sun isn't up. When I first woke Zachary up he told me I was lying because it was still dark. I had to take all three kids because their dad had to work (and could not take off) and no one else wakes up at 6. Plus most of my family and friends work and were unable to help. I didn't want to ask either. I did arrange with my mom to come when it got a little later and she was going to take my 3 year old to preschool. My youngest was going to stay with me all day.

Lucky for us we live only minutes to a fantastic hospital. We got there and waited for a short time. We went from one waiting room to the surgery waiting area where they did all their prep work. There he had to dress in a hospital gown and was given a sedative. We were able to watch some cartoons on a little tv while we waited. I noticed immediately when the sedative kicked in and was that ever hilarious! I mumbled something about how he was never ever allowed to get drunk ever and he shouted, "I WANNA GET DRUUUUNNNKK!!" Everyone understood but they still had a good laugh. Then it was time to wheel him off to surgery so we gave him hugs and kisses and went on to a new waiting room at about 7:45am. They gave us a card with his id number on it and told us we could watch a television which had a list of id numbers and doctors doing surgery. Each id also had a code beside it which informed waiting family what part of surgery they were going through. My kids were amazingly well-behaved. Jonas crawled around and played with the toys I brought. Amara drew tons of pictures and made friends with some women. He was done his surgery around 8:30am and my mom got there at 8:40am. About 15 minutes after my mom got there they told me he was done and we could go to pediatrics to meet him. We were given his new room number and went on up. The pediatric unit is filled with colorful rooms, bright lights and pretty pictures. Zachary had a nice room with plenty of extra seating for us. He had a very nice view of the city and one of the new televisions with a dvd player. The new tvs are flat panel lcd. They are awesome. Zachary was wheeled in and looked good. I asked how he was feeling and he said he was fine! They reminded me that his drugs hadn't worn off entirely so he would feel fine for a while.

So the kids made themselves at home and we spent the whole day there. I was able to run down to the cafe to get breakfast while my mom was there. Later I got dinner from the other cafe while Jason was off work and stayed with the kids. Jonas and I took a short walk around the whole pediatric unit which was surprisingly small. We stopped in a play room where he played with some cars. We passed a few rooms set up with cribs where babies were lying. That made me sad even though I couldn't be sure if they were really really sick or just like Zachy and recovering from something.

I tried to take a nap but I couldn't get comfortable and right when I was about to fall asleep Jonas woke up. Zachary didn't eat anything for lunch but a popsicle (he had more of those at the hospital than he had all year).

My mom came back from preschool with Amara and stayed until about 3pm. Jason arrived at 3:30 so I wasn't alone very much. Then Jason fell asleep and Amara started really acting out so I kicked the two of them out around 5. As they were leaving, Jason's dad and step-mom arrived to visit.

While they were there we found out that his doctor gave the Ok to discharge him right away. I tried to encourage him to stay the night and even told him that we would stay with him but he really really wanted to go home. That surprised me since we don't have cable and there he was able to watch anything he wanted. He said he wanted to play with his toys (the toys he normally says he doesn't have at all). I told him he probably wouldn't want to play- that the iv they were giving him, plus the pain medication were making him feel really good. He didn't care. So around 6:30pm we were able to leave.

When we got home he went right to the most comfortable chair in the house and went to sleep. When he woke up he was in a lot of pain so I had him take his antibiotic and pain meds with some ice water. Then we put him back to bed. He is such a sport though- he isn't complaining at all. I wouldn't be that way! I was so scared when he went in to surgery but I am so happy now that it is done and over with and was successful.

While it was a taxing day, it was definately worth it. This week will be a bit of a challenge- taking care of my sicko and the younger two as well. He needs as much rest as possible and doesn't need his brother and sister jumping all over him!

Joffrey's Java Beta Test

I am a beta tester for Joffrey's Jamaican Me Crazy coffee. I got my sample a few days ago and was able to try it out for 3 days. Best test I have taken in a while!Usually I just drink regular flavored coffees. I have never tried a strange flavor that I liked. I stick with cheap brands like Folgers and Maxwell House. I drink Breakfast Blends and vary between Bold and Smooth. I don't like the Vanilla or Chocolate flavors of coffee. They usually end up tasting awful which could possibly have been credited to my cheap coffee maker. I always end up flavoring my coffee with a variety of creamers if I decide on a different taste for the day.I tried Joffrey's "Jamaican Me Crazy" coffee with whole milk and with powdered regular creamer, and always with sugar (it would have been perfect with my raw sugar). Using the powder created a bolder flavor and the whole milk definately mellowed it out. I actually liked this different and unique flavor! It was a few steps away from my regular, plain coffee drinks. But not so far away that I couldn't enjoy it. Subtle carribean influences and the ability to make it bold or smooth depending on my mood made this coffee a true treat. It didn't taste old and my cheap coffee maker didn't create a disaster as usually happens when I stray away from plain. I can no longer blame my coffee maker for making bad coffee! This stuff is great!Today I am back to drinking my Folgers Breakfast Blend Coffee and while it still tastes ok, I want more Joffrey's!! I think I have found a new favorite!You want to try some? Here is a coupon code to get you started:DCWEBLAUNCH085 for 25% off your order, which is good until the end of September. Hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

From the Frogpond

I am a Bzz Agent and every so often Bzz shares some neat sites with us. Check out the sites I like by clicking on the badge above. I have found some pretty awesome places and some not-so-good ones too.

Or you can check out individual ones:

I am big on environmental causes so this one is my favorite!
Visit Mokugift - The Cool Gift
(Quoted from the Bzz Agent site description)
Mokugift lets you plant a tree for a friend.
Most trees absorb 26 lbs of carbon dioxide every year, and a single tree will also absorb about one ton of carbon dioxide over the course of its lifetime. A tree produces enough clean air for a family of four on an going basis.
How It Works
Planting a tree for a friend on mokugift is like sending an ecard. When your friend opens the animated e-card, a real tree gets planted. Along side the tree, your friends will receive your witty gift message, inside joke, or best wishes. Your friend can display the tree on facebook and other popular sites.
mokugift trees are planted where they help our planets the most, in these 12 countries:
Belize, Honduras, Nicaragua, Panama, Cameroon, Ethiopia, Mali, Senegal, Zambia, India, Philippines, and Hati
Trees planted in these tropical regions help the planet the most because they absorb the most carbon dioxide
mokugift partners with organizations that educate locals about environmental planting methods that grow nutritious fruits and crops. Avoiding toxic chemicals helps these people live healthy lives and ensures that their land can be passed on to the next generation with pride. This pride ensures that they will not sell out to corporations that will deforest and deplete the land.


Visit Moshi Monsters
Moshi Monsters is a site for kids. Kids get to start by choosing a monster, color and then they can name him/her. Once they get started (and after parents approve) they can take care of their monster- feeding it and giving it love. Monsters react to the way they are treated. Children earn Rox, or points, for playing educational games and Rox are used to care for monsters. This site is great for parents and kids alike! I signed my son up and he is excited to get started here.


What They Play is a site for parents about video games. Parents can learn what is going on in the video games that their children are playing- the violence, nudity, profanity and anything else you may be concerned about. You can search for games by game system, age range, popularity, genre and more. It looks like a pretty helpful site when trying to determine which games are age-appropriate. Of course, you could always just use the game's rating to decide but this site provides an in-depth reason for WHY the games are rated the way they are.

Chelsy's Heroes- helping the military and their families.

I have started helping a fund raiser called Chelsy's Heroes. Their goal is to raise money to send care packages to military serving overseas. They also try to help families here at home that are struggling financially. It is a great cause! The site is http://www.chelsysheroes.com/ and I have created my own little fund raising site for them here: www.freewebs.com/hero-helper-shop where you can shop, register for websites and more, and everything you do helps. Some sites give a percentage of the sales and others give a flat rate for registering or making a purchase. And all of it goes to Chelsy's Heroes!

Right now I am struggling with trying to get any traffic to the site, let alone raising any money. I use some traffic exchanges but they haven't been effective. I belong to a few social sites where I have let my friends know about it but they don't seem interested either. Many sites don't allow advertising. Know of a place where I can advertise this for free I would love to hear about it!!



*Just a thought...if you have a loved one overseas then go to the site and let them know and they will add them to the list of recipients! I haven't gone over that portion of the site much so I am not aware of any criteria or anything but it is worth checking out!

Poor, Party of 5 (about me)

I am a 26 year old mom of 3 kids that range in age from 7-under 1.  I love to talk about their lives and the stuff that we like to do.  We live with their father, my boyfriend. We are not married...I don't really have an excuse for that but things work the way they are.  We have a sign on the molding above our dining room entrance that says, "We may not have it all together but together we have it all."  And it is SO true!

We are a party of 5 on a crappy income. Hence the POOR.

I have been spending a few years trying to figure out how to supplement our income and have a goal of making enough money to never have to feel the need to go back to work. Even better would be to figure out a way for us both to stay at home full time.

I do it all, try it all, or so it seems. I blog, do GPT sites, surveys.  It also seems that with my cluttered mind I can never stick to just one thing and end up never doing really well with anything I do.  I try though, and the more time that passes the more I realize how much we NEED to do this in addition to WANTING to do it.  

Maybe my ideas will help out others. Maybe your ideas will help us! We'd love to hear them!

Read on to see how we manage.